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7 Signs You’re Charming (and Are Not Aware of It)
You make people feel good about themselves and like you unconsciously
Do you know that 70 percent of people have imposter syndrome?
That means they don’t think they’re good enough despite the evidence!
So, if you don’t realize you’re charming, it doesn’t mean you aren’t. You just need to identify it.
Here’s why:
- People will be more receptive to what you have to say (according to the law of vibrations).
- You’ll get more breaks and promotions at work or school. (Your self-belief will manifest into success).
- You will maintain good relationships with people despite different opinions, beliefs, and backgrounds. This is important if your goal is a business or marriage.
Plus, charm is an influence multiplier.
It makes people feel happy and grateful. They will do what you may ask them to do and offer all their attention and care.
According to a study, a charming person will have the easiest time at work and in life because the people around them trust and support them.
So, what makes you charming?
Charisma is an invisible aura of positive vibrations that make you attractive. It might be due to an inborn trait or a self-developed behavior.
#1. The Fearlessness Vibe
My close friend is one of those people who loves trying new things every day — no matter how weird or fearful. If someone suggests we go wild camping in the woods, he’s all for it (meanwhile, I’m thinking about all the bears and snakes).
A couple of years ago, I was at a party, and he said, “I’ve wanted to try heli-skiing. Would you join me?”
I thought, “Oh God, no! That is a terrible idea!”
(P.S: Heli-Skiing is one of the most dangerous adventure sports in the world.)
But I couldn’t help but admire his adventurous attitude toward life.
He also has an interesting hobby — he’s a competitive eater and has been on The Food Network. Most people would never dream of doing…
